Just clearified my mind

Be independent, be helping.
It's good to have friends to help out
But don't fall into the thinking of depending on them
I've been overshadowed by ChaoGe these days, who is such a considerate and mature guy.
See, good things can have side effects

Be independent, be concerned.
when you are talking English
Be independent, be concerned.
when you are socialing,
Be independent, be concerned.
when you are thinking
Be independent, be concerned
with ChaoGe, even with Lili
Be independent, be helping
when doing everything

But do show respect, avoid being bold.

thanks Chao, lesson learned.
anyway，允公允能